Love Or Dependency: How To Differentiate Them?
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Madeleine
3 years ago
Very good that you pay attention to this, because it is indeed not healthy to be too emotionally dependent on a partner to a certain extent. You have to love yourself first, before you can love another, they sometimes say and it is. You have to be so happy... Show moreVery good that you pay attention to this, because it is indeed not healthy to be too emotionally dependent on a partner to a certain extent. You have to love yourself first, before you can love another, they sometimes say and it is. You have to be so happy with yourself that besides the other person, you are a strong personality that can cap your own beans. Hihi own bean caps is a Dutch proverb and by that we mean that we have to be independent. I always think that way, we all have been harassed on this face of the earth by ourselves and man has an enormous power in themselves. By the way, loving is nothing wrong, very important even, but your partner has to see a powerful person when he looks at you, that's attractive. And that has nothing to do with the fact that you can't be powerful, because there may be things in your life that you are equally less powerful, but that must be temporary, otherwise it will not be healthy for the relationship. Ultimately, we have to do it all ourselves. That's what life is like. A lesson for every day.
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rorocando
3 years ago
Excellent publication the first thing is to recognize dependence and work on it. It sounds easy but for many it isn't
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